How do you express love to the special ladies in your life? ๐
I love hearing & learning from my lover man about the things he โintentionallyโ does to express & show love to me, itโs so beautiful & in lots of ways so healing too. We both always show & share love, but can have such different ways of doing so. The more he shares, the more I pick up on & notice those little things *he does & it brings such a warm feeling to my being. ๐ฅบ๐ฅฐโจ
House diary update: ๐ก๐ Iโve seen spiders in the masses; indoor & out, a few rats/mice (that I initially thought were baby possums ๐คฃ), a lil snake (that was actually trying to eat said rats above), an actual adult possum living in the roof & LOTS n LOTS of different species of birds!! Iโm lovinggggg it! ๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ
Spent some time out in the gardens today ๐ฑ- attempting weeding. Although I must admit despite the strong desire to be a knowledgeable Gardner, I am still very much a beginner & didnโt know too well about the weeding I was doing ๐คฃ โฆ itโs the effort that counts eh & during my time out there I made some interesting discoveries including: many plastic toys hidden in the earth, a random shoe, some ripe cherry tomatoes that I gobbled up & a wasp nest that I nearly disrupted! ๐คฃ๐
The not so complex art of worshipping with your mouth. Suck her titties in the morning. Kiss the inside of her thighs. Plant a reassuring peck on her shoulders at night. Bite her ass. Slow down with the tongue flick, take your time and suck on her clit. Your mouth was made for her pleasure. ๐คค๐ฆ
First week in the new house is going so well! ๐ชบ๐๐ก
Sleeping on 2 camping mattresses atm on the floor, till we get through some more basic cleaning & then go bed shopping hopefully this weekend!! โจ (first time ever buying a new bed & it feels gooooood ๐ whoop whoops!! #adulttings ๐คฃ๐ค)
You ever just find someone so BEAUTIFUL & ATTRACTIVE (in all the ways) you just wanna make them breakfast & make them cum everyday for the rest of their life? ๐ณ๐ฆ๐
Eye contact with my lover man has welcomed some really beautiful moments... as well as some really โeye openingโ ones. ๐
Imma be honest... our sex feels NEXT level, & I donโt have any โgolden rulesโ as to how or why it is just SO electric, but I would say that the connection exercises that we practise and are embed into our routines together may play a role.
Eye gazing would be one of my favs. Some days our eye gazing just feels like home & a warm feeling of comfort & being seen in open vulnerability ... and other times we tap into a space that I still donโt have the words to fully explain. ๐ช๐ซ We communicate without words. We share visions, we share thoughts & we feel so intimately connected - & we are FULLY sober.
To paint the picture a lil more practically for you: we can literally be found laying in bed on our sides facing eachother & just letting our eyes soften as we eye gaze- sometimes we ask to drop into this space, sometimes we plan it & other times it just happens. We actively eye gaze while we wait for our food to be delivered to our table when we are on dates. We actively eye gaze while sat on the couch, when conversations have died off & we wish to soak eachother in.
Experiencing this sober, while not touching or speaking is, on its own, INCREDIBLE... & then to invite touch, passion & words into the mix... bahhhhhhh!! ๐คฏ๐ฅต๐ฅ๐ฆ Gets me fucking horny thinkin about it ๐คฃ
If you got a lover... why not invite them to try something new, or get back into the groove of eye contact sessions with you? It may feel a lil daunting at first, or even after the first 50/100/1000 times (lol, it still catches me off guard sometimes) but why not give it a crack? What chu got to lose? โจ
