Why did sunny and I decide to start an OF? This is a quest..

Why did sunny and I decide to start an OF? This is a question we get asked a lot, and I love answering it! In hopes to help normalizing this or even inspiring others to do so. At first it started as a joke, but then as all things do with Sunny and I quickly came to reality. We realized that we consider ourselves a “normal healthy couple,” but really enjoy exploring kinky sex fun sex together, that our sex is truly a hobby and experience for us each time, that our sex is not a chore or obligation to each other. That we really love AND like each other and love exploring with each other. We wanted to share that you can explore new things together, that you can chat and communicate during sex, that you can laugh and take breaks, that you can at any point say you don’t like something or that you’re curious about something. We created such a safe space for each other to explore and be ourselves that we had to share this with others. We both came from abusive engagements prior to meeting each other, and both had trauma cycles and habits that we helped each other break, and we give so much patience and caring for each other that we wanted to document everything for ourselves to also look back on. We were both shamed so much in our past- me for wanting to try pegging, group play, public play, and anal- I mean my biggest fantasy is to literally get fucked on a stage- and Sunny was shamed for anal play, group play, his sex drive, and wanting to explore pegging- that we both were conditioned to not talk about kinks or explore them- until we met each other. On our first two dates, we were best friends prior to dating, but our first two official dates we talked about kinks, desires, fantasies, and even shared porn that we both liked- from that foundation we allowed each other the freedom to explore all things, have evolving consent, with no shame or judgment for whatever the outcome was. We had our first threesome the day after sunny proposed to me, we tried pegging within the first month of our relationship, we started fulfilling fantasies and trying new things together. All of these reasons made us want to share this with you- to show you that your kinks are perfectly normal, your sexuality is amazing, and that you and what you’re into and who you love should be celebrated. We started this community because we also needed a safe place to share ourselves, to explore new things, to have likeminded friends. What I can promise you is here and everywhere else we are that we will always be your biggest cheerleaders in kink and pleasure, that I’ll never let anyone shame you if I have the say , and that I’ll always be here to talk about all the things in a safe and non-judgmental way. We have so much fun exploring new things with you, a lot of our firsts have been recorded and shared in hopes to normalize trying new “scary” things with your partner, in sexting I play out your favorite fantasies to make you feel so good, in our customs we literally make you a custom porn so you have your very own fantasy just how you like it, daily messages are there to connect and share with you- this entire experience is here to make you feel good, loved, appreciated, and sexy! Who you love, the toys you enjoy, the curiosity's you have are all so incredible that I want to celebrate you and help you feel comfortable in your own skin against a scary world. We cannot tell you how much you mean to us, how much this means to us, and we cannot wait to continue growing our relationships with you and trying out all of your kinks and sharing ours with you. When we say we love you, we truly mean that ❤️ Thank you for giving us a chance ☀️ Sunny and Skye